Table 5

 Students’ reasons for and against accepting the dinner invitation and the frequency of their occurrence at each survey point

Pre year 1Post year 1Post year 3Post year 5Total
Reasons given for accepting
How else will I meet someone?534517
Professional and private lives can be separate435719
When patient changes doctor/becomes an ex-patient932418
How else will I meet someone?534517
Everyone on the island is a patient including your wife/husband552416
There’s been previous social contact320510
As long as doctor doesn’t take advantage/abuse patient322310
Doctors are only human32128
If both consent11114
Just be friends11013
Patient made first move20002
Life’s too short01102
Patient is level headed10001
I see no harm10001
Follow your heart01001
No legal barrier00011
Reasons given for not accepting
Professional consensus based
    Unethical2441222
    Compromise doctor–patient relationship654621
    Abuse of power30317
    Unprofessional13217
    Fear of GMC consequences40116
    Breach of trust20103
    Breach of confidentiality11103
    Loss of respect in community20002
    Transference issues10001
    Tell patient no00101
Non professional consensus based
    When patient changes doctor/becomes an ex-patient735924
    Professional and private lives can be separate342211
    There’s been previous social contact20002
    Wait a while10012
    Everyone on the island is a patient00101
    The skin condition would put me off00011